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Eulogy Questionnaire
Where to Start
I understand this is likely an extraordinarily painful time. My deepest condolences for your loss.
In the midst of grief, memories can provide some solace. This questionnaire aims to help you gather meaningful information to craft a eulogy that honours your loved one's legacy. The questions simply aim to surface special recollections you may not have thought of in years. Please take time to pause or step away if needed - there is no rush. Any memories you uncover, no matter how small, will illuminate the irreplaceable impact your loved one made. Their remarkable story deserves to be told and remembered. Use this as a tool to find the words and honor their spirit in your own time.
Getting to know your loved one
What is the full name of your loved one?
Were there any endearing nicknames or other names they went by?
Early Life
When was your loved one born?
Could you please share where your loved one was born? Were they delivered at home or in a hospital setting?
Additionally, could you provide details on the town, county, or country of their birth?
What were the names of your loved one's parents?
What were their parents like? What was their relationship like with their parents?
How would you describe the bond they shared?
Did your loved one have any siblings? If so, please share their names.
What was their relationship like with their siblings? How would you describe the dynamic between them?
Could you share any touching or amusing stories from their early years?
Where did they enjoy spending time during their early years?
What was their childhood like? What stands out about those early years?
What activities and hobbies did they enjoy during childhood?
Are there any cherished childhood memories of theirs that you hold dear?
School Years
Which schools did they go to?
Did they pursue any specialized training or higher education?"
Could you share what they studied and if they obtained any degrees?
What were they like during their teenage years?
What hobbies or interests did they have as a teenager?
Were they considered popular in school?
Did they maintain friendships with anyone from school?
Are there any amusing anecdotes or tales from that period that you recall?
Love and Family
Did they have a partner in life? Could you share their name and talk about their relationship?
How did they first meet?
Did they get married? When did they get married?
What do you think made them and their partner's bond unique or special?
Are there any memorable details you recall from the proposal, wedding, or honeymoon?
Did they have any children? What were their names?
How would you describe their relationship with each of their children?
Are there any heartwarming family stories you'd like to share about them and their loved ones?
Career and Adventures
Can you tell us about the jobs and careers they pursued throughout their life?
Were there any particular jobs or career paths that held special significance for them?
Do you remember what their last position or occupation was?
Can you recall the various places they called home over the years?
Were there any specific locations or places that held sentimental value for them?
Did they undertake any exciting adventures or memorable travels during their lifetime?
Traditions and Connections
Did they have any cherished family traditions or gatherings they looked forward to?
What were some of their favorite holidays or special occasions?
Can you tell us about their closest friends and the bond they shared?
What activities did they and their friends enjoy doing together?
Are there any vacation spots or summers that stand out as particularly memorable for them?
Interests and Hobbies
What were some of their interests and hobbies as an adult?
What types of music, books, or sports teams did they enjoy?
Did they have any collections or cherished treasures that were particularly meaningful to them?
Reflections on Their Life
From your perspective, what do you think was the most challenging aspect of their life?
Did they have any collections or cherished treasures that were particularly meaningful to them?
What qualities or characteristics made them particularly special or extraordinary to you?
Are there any amusing anecdotes or heartwarming memories of them that you'd like to share?
How did they influence you, and what principles guided their journey through life?
Their Final Chapter
If you feel comfortable, could you share any memories of their final days or any parting words they shared?
In just a few words, how would you describe your loved one?
Remembrance and Legacy
Which achievements do you believe meant the most to them?
Can you recall a time when they were truly at their happiest?
Did they ever express how they wished to be remembered?
If they could share one final piece of wisdom with us today, what do you imagine it would be?
What will you miss the most about them? What memories do you hold dear?
If there are any other memories or stories you'd like to share, please feel free to do so.
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